Marriage Compass
Navigate your relationship with clarity. Track power dynamics, emotional safety, and get AI-powered guidance tailored to both of you.
The Two-Axis Model
Every relationship interaction maps to two dimensions: Power & Agency (how much leadership you show) and Emotional Safety (how safe your partner feels).
Secure Leadership
IDEAL ZONE
Codependent
Enmeshed
Authoritarian
Controlling
Detached
Avoidant
Four Quadrants, One Goal
Secure Leadership — IDEAL
Strong mutual respect, clear roles, deep affection. Both partners feel safe and empowered.
Codependent — Enmeshed
High closeness but low differentiation. Fear of conflict, loss of individual identity.
Authoritarian — Controlling
One partner dominates. Compliance without real intimacy or emotional safety.
Detached — Avoidant
Like roommates. No pursuit, no emotional risk. The relationship is fading.
Everything You Need
Daily Check-ins
Quick 5-question reflections that track your relationship health over time.
AI Interaction Logging
Describe what happened — AI analyzes the power dynamics and emotional safety.
AI Counselor
Talk to a counselor that knows both of you — your personalities, love languages, and history.
Partner Profiles
Build soul profiles for both partners. Love languages, communication styles, values.
Compass Visualization
See exactly where your relationship sits on the Power × Safety grid.
Private & Secure
Your data stays yours. Row-level security ensures only you see your information.
Get Your Personalized Potency Actions
High-impact actions tailored to your relationship dynamic. Pick your partner's love language and get actionable steps you can start today.
Step 1 — Your partner's primary love language
Ready to navigate your relationship?
Included with your Premium subscription ($3/mo). The AI Counselor uses Watts — pay only for what you use.